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Success Secret Of The Ages: It’s All A Gift

By Bob Lancer
Thursday, February 24th, 2011

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Here is a success secret that that just may change your life:
relate to everything as your perfect gift.

What happens to you does not really impact how you feel. Attitude makes the difference between joy and sorrow, appreciation and disdain.

When you relate to what is happening right now, even when it includes suffering, as your perfect gift, you will begin feeling better about what happens.

You will be less fearful of unpleasant situations when you apply this success secret. You will begin to see the pure and perfect opportunity delivered by each moment.

When we compare our situation to another’s, and ours seems to come up short by comparison, we are doing the opposite of applying this success secret, and suffering the painful, pointless consequences.

There is no experience to resist.
It’s all a gift.

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Here is a success secret that that just may change your life: relate to everything as your perfect gift.

  • Discouragement is a gift and elation is a gift.
  • Consciousness is a gift and unconsciousness is a gift.
  • Harmony is a gift and discord is a gift.
  • Knowing it’s a gift is a gift and not knowing it’s a gift is a gift.
  • Loss is a gift and gain is a gift.
  • Kindness is a gift and insanity is a gift.
  • Health is a gift and illness is a gift.
  • Getting it right is a gift and getting it wrong is a gift.
  • Pleasure is a gift and pain is a gift.

This success secret will come to life for you if you remember to question your reaction whenever you feel deprived or let down in any way.

Simply open your mind to the possibility that whatever is happening comes to you from the perfect love and wisdom of an absolutely Good Order Delivery system (or God).

Apply this success secret to discover your fearful resistance melting away, replaced by a sense of grateful release and relief.

Perhaps the most profound success secret of the ages posits the Source of what happens as infinite perfection.

Plato referred to the basic pattern of existence as essentially Good. You will also find this success secret in:

  • the Hermetic wisdom of Egyptian antiquity
  • in the ancient Tao
  • in Hinduism
  • In the Jewish Kabbalah
  • at the heart of Christianity
  • in the teachings of Buddhism
  • in the transcendental philosophies of Whitman and Emerson

It is only our superficial judgment and habitual emotional reaction
that turns any event against us.

Apply this success secret of the ages to discover just how good – how great – how wonderful your life CAN be.

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“Secret” Skills for Success

By Bob Lancer
Wednesday, February 16th, 2011

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There are many commonly known skills for success, including

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Focus on the now to feel renewed. Now is a new beginning

  • Time management
  • Clarifying goals
  • Building strategic alliances
  • Adhering to integrity
  • Pursing ongoing self-development
  • Persevering

There are also less well-known or more secret skills for success.

One pertains to an essential ingredient for perseverance: the success skill of dropping burdensome memories of how many times you have started, or of how long you have worked without results.

Achieving major goals can take a very long time;
longer than you ever thought it would
or even should take you.

Making effort can grow increasingly tiresome. If you think about past disappointments you can begin to feel discouraged.

As discouragement mounts it drains more and more of the power and focus we need to make the most possible progress toward your desired destination.

If you are feeling frustrated or disheartened about achieving a goal, this is one of the most important skills for success for you to remember.

Focus on the now to feel renewed.
Now is a new beginning.

To hold onto your past is to horde experiences, which clutters your way forward. To enter the now, let the past go.

Be a beginner now: now is the time to begin the creation of what you want right now.

Here is another of those “secret” skills for success; it relates to letting go of the past.  This is the success skill of being aware of what you are thinking and feeling in the present.

You have to notice that you are holding
onto the past to let it go!

As you practice the skills for success of:

  • Being aware of what you are thinking and feeling in the present
  • And of letting go of the burden of thinking about the disappointing past, you accomplish two things

  1. You will feel freer, lighter and more energized in the present moment
  2. You will be giving your all right now for all you want right now

Put these skills for success to work for you to discover just how wonderfully they really do work!

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Tap The Power of Inspiring Thoughts

By Bob Lancer
Wednesday, February 9th, 2011

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inspirational thoughts give positive power

The purpose of thought is creation. You create what you think about.

Have you ever wondered where your inspiring thoughts come from?

Inspiring thoughts come from a center of deep inner peace.

Worrisome thinking arises from an anxious, nervous state.

Understanding the source of inspiring thoughts can help you choose your thoughts for positive power.

The purpose of thought is creation.
You create what you think about.
To choose your thoughts is to
choose your destiny.

Inspiring thoughts create conditions that you desire.

When you worry, your thinking forms possibilities you don’t want.

When you connect with inspiring thoughts you feel spiritually uplifted.

When you connect with worrisome thoughts you feel strained, drained and demoralized.

When you feel inspired by the idea of creating, say, a great work of art, or a great business, you can then form that idea into a goal and take action aimed at accomplishing that goal.

The inspiration you feel when you revisit that idea fuels your motivation to work, overcome obstacles and persevere through losses and difficulty.

Every moment you spend worrying, though, drains you of that motivation and leads you toward dreadful possibilities.

Since inspirational thoughts are more constructive than worry,
you would think that no one would choose worry.
And yet, we do make that choice.

We worry because we believe, either consciously or unconsciously, that we have no choice.  But we actually do have a choice.

You can shift out of a worried thought just as you can choose to think about a pink elephant, and then shift your thought to a blue elephant, at will.

To Shift From Worry To Inspiration

  • Take a few calming breaths, rest from activity, and ask yourself, “What would I love to bring about in my life?”
  • Follow that with a calm, quiet, inner openness and trust that an idea will come.
  • Your inspirational thoughts will soon begin to flow.

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The Success System Solution

By Bob Lancer
Thursday, February 3rd, 2011

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Success is a system. In other words, success is a result of a definite and reliable systematic approach to life.  When know the success system, achieving your goals in life is simply a matter of putting that system into action.

Your goals may not manifest right away or with total ease as you employ the success system, but as you invest more and more of your limitless power into the application of it, you will inevitably grow more and more successful.

Key to success lies in the success system

When know the success system, achieving your goals in life is simply a matter of putting that system into action.

One aspect of the success system involves the consistent practice of
Solution Consciousness.

To apply Solution Consciousness means that you focus on solutions instead of on problems.

Let’s say that your problem is your dissatisfaction with the amount of money you are making.  Focusing your mind on the financial condition that disturbs you is what we can call Problem Consciousness.

Focusing on problems just gives those problems more power over you.  This is because your power flows in the direction of your attention.  You draw you’re your life whatever you focus your attention on.

To shift your focus from your financial problem to your financial solution means that you are now empowering the solution to your problem and the experience of that solution expands in your life.

One way to shift from focusing on, and thereby reinforcing, your financial problem, onto focusing on, and thereby receiving your financial solution, is to simply ask yourself the question: “What would the solution to this problem look like?”

That question directs your mind out of the problem and toward the solution.  As you begin thinking about the solution, the condition that makes you feel content, relieved and grateful, your Solution Consciousness begins to dawn.

As you focus on what you want, there is no space in your mind to focus on what you don’t want.

Focusing on what you want is an essential aspect of
the success system.

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Don’t Be Misled By Success Secrets

By Bob Lancer
Monday, January 24th, 2011

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Free your mind from negative to think positive

Switching from negative to positive thinking is not as effortless as it might seem.

One danger of the success secrets movement is that it often makes success sound too easy.   Then, when things don’t change that easily, individuals may feel so disappointed that they give up trying to improve their circumstances.

While it’s true, for instance, that visualizing what you want draws it to you, and holding onto a thought about what you do NOT want brings more of that into your life, switching from negative to positive thinking is not as effortless as it might seem.

How we think is habitual, and we can change long-standing habits by only small degrees at a time. Making major change requires long-term discipline. 

The success secrets movement also often misleads by overlooking the crucial practice of self-awareness.  So much of a person’s negative thinking goes on UNCONSCIOUSLY, and one cannot change what one is not aware of.

 Until one becomes sufficiently self-aware, one confuses troubling thoughts about life, self, others and situations with the reality those thoughts represent. And this makes one’s problems seem inescapable.

 Whatever you think is just a mental projection.

The longer you hold onto a disturbing mental projection, the more powerful and dominating
you make it.

 Another way that success secrets often mislead is by overlooking the critical, causal relationship between thought and emotion. For example, when you feel angry, thinking fixates on what makes you angry. When desire is triggered, thoughts fixate on what you want to be true, blinding you to costs and dangers.

Practice being aware of your thinking, emotion, mood, attitude and desire in the present.  This will help you to avoid fixating, and thereby empowering the negative thinking that produces what you do NOT want in your life.

 You CAN apply success secrets to soar into the highest levels of accomplishment you can imagine by practicing more self-awareness and remaining committed for the long-term.

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5 Mantras Of Positive Thinking

By noahbrown
Friday, January 21st, 2011

If you are constantly blaming others for everything wrong in your personal and professional life, if you are feeling low and depressed for a long period of time, if you don’t look forward to anything; then it is time to take a hard look at your own attitude and make a conscious effort towards changing it.

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Negative thinking drains the joy out of everything you do

Negative attitude stems from negative thoughts and it can be very harmful if this habit is continued for a long period of time. Negative thinking drains the joy out of everything you do. The same job, which may seem drab and dreary to you if you are thinking negative, will turn satisfying and encouraging if you look upon it as an opportunity for doing something or learning something new. Here are 5 mantras to help you develop the habit of positive thinking:

Seek the company of positive people

The first and the easiest thing that you can do to develop positing thinking is to spend time with the people who think positive. Just as a smile elicits a reciprocal smile, positive thinking too is contagious. People who look up the brighter side of life even in the midst of odds, make other around them think positive about themselves.

If you stay with negative people they will only push you into more negativity. Instead try and always surround yourself with helpful, strong, confident people who encourage you and help you see things in a positive way.

Speak and think positive words

Whether you are thinking or conversing with others, always use positive words. Instead of saying ‘I can’t', say words such as ‘I can’, ‘It is possible’, ‘I am able’ and so on. While conversing, use words that evoke feelings of joy, strength and success. Whenever you feel like giving up, repeat it to yourself that you can do it. You will be amazed to find how much strength you can draw from your positive thoughts.

However thinking or repeating positive words for a few minutes in a day is not enough. You have to consciously make it your habit to always use positive words and refrain from anything negative.

Control your thoughts

Negative thoughts can sometimes come flooding in and drown you in negativity. They are not easily swept away either. You have to work towards turning your negative thinking into positive thoughts. Whenever a negative thought begins to develop in your mind, dump it and instead substitute the depressing, doubtful thoughts with good, confident thoughts. Don’t let your emotions rule you. Instead you rule your mind and thoughts.

Change your lifestyle

Exercise regularly and eat good, healthy food. All these things will also make you feel and think good. Watch a good movie which makes you feel happy. Enroll yourself in dance or music classes, learn swimming, read good books and do things that make you feel good. Cook something special if cooking is something that makes you happy.

Moreover, bring about a little change in your home as well. De-clutter your surroundings. Dump all the unnecessary things which you don’t need anymore into the trash bin. Clean up the house and rearrange things, such as shifting the furniture around or reorganizing the closet. And surround yourself with beautiful things such as a photo frame of your family, colorful potted plants or flowers, and whatever you like.

Watch motivational videos

In addition, watch some motivational videos which inspire you to think positive. There are various websites which boast of an impressive collection of inspirational quotes and video messages which offer success secrets of brightest of minds . In fact, make it a point to daily watch a motivational video which inspire you to face life’s challenges powerfully, assist in your personal development and encourage you to stay positive always.

You can even become a member of Wisie.com and receive daily inspirational videos on positive thinking, relationship advice, parenting advice and success secrets. Inspirational videos with the motivational messages will keep you motivated towards your intents and help you realize your dreams.

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The Non-Reactive Way To Success

By Bob Lancer
Monday, January 17th, 2011

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Learn to control your reactions

Your key to success is to align your response with what you want to accomplish

The non-reactive way to success is the most direct way to success.

When you react, you are being triggered off into a way that diverts your course away from your true goals.  In fact, the more reactive one is, the less successful and satisfied that individual must feel.

To the extent that you feel dissatisfied, unsuccessful or stuck, you are experiencing the results of reactivity.  The way out of failure and the way to more success, is through NON-reactivity.

When you react your response are not based on clear and
accurate perception of your situation.

The opposite of reacting is calmly and patiently considering your situation in order to come up with a response that aligns with what you really want to accomplish – your way to success.

Under the influence of an automatic, habitual, emotional reaction we lose touch with our deeper self.  We lash out, sink into despair, or waste energy in other ways.

When you react, you recreate the same old problems because you are living in the same old way.

Instead of reacting, be responsive by choosing what you say, think, feel
and do in line with what you want to create in your life.

Only when you feel calm can you:

  1. Sense the deeper goals you most deeply desire to achieve
  2. Accurately perceive what is happening
  3. Realize how to think, feel, speak and act here and now for the results you really want.

A reaction is a trigger-response based on hasty observation,
superficial judgment and poor reasoning.

Reacting re-creates what you do not want. Create more of what you do want by responding.

Shift from reacting to responding through the practice of being more self-aware in the present.  As you notice yourself falling into a reaction pattern can you begin withdrawing your energy from it, leaving you with more energy to invest in more conscious, constructive responses. This is your way to more success.

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A Creative Key To Success

By Bob Lancer
Monday, January 10th, 2011

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Perhaps the greatest key to success is realizing that you are a creator. You create your destiny through what you think, feel, say and do.

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Key to success is realizing that you are a creator

Therefore, carefully choose your responses to what happens, instead of blindly reacting, because how you respond to what happens determines what will happen to you. This applies to every area of your life, including your economy.

You are the creator of your economic destiny. If you listen to news reports, or the complaints of others, you may become confused about this.

Don’t let anyone talk you into discouragement. In any economy there are opportunities. There are those who prosper greatly. You can be one of them.

To apply the great creative key to success presented here, remember this: The more economical you are with the creative power of your thoughts, feeling, speech, action and attention, the more economically successful you are bound to be.

Consciously and intentionally direct your thinking, feeling, speaking and acting in line with the economic results you want. Notice what you are paying attention to, because your life follows the direction of your attention.

Worrying about your economic fate is one of the most common ways of misusing your creative power to direct our own economy.

If you worry about a situation that means that you want a certain outcome but you fear that it may not happen.

Yet worrying focuses your thoughts on where you do not want to go, and it generates feelings that create more havoc in your life.

And the more you worry, the more you develop a worry habit, meaning that whatever happens, you are going to be more likely to worry about what may happen.

A Creative Key to Success: For more of what you want tomorrow,
begin letting go of your worry habit today.

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Personal Development Equals Greater Success

By Bob Lancer
Tuesday, January 4th, 2011

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Instead of hoping, waiting, or worrying, put yourself to work and pursue your personal development

Higher levels of success in your life requires your personal development, and your personal development involves liberation from habitual patterns.

Because your life is the product of what you do, you need to change what you do to change your results. If this does not represent your basic attitude toward success, your attitude
is one thing you need to change.

Many seem to regard themselves as a victim of their circumstances or of other people without even realizing it.

You might hear them say things like, “The reason that so many people are out of a job in the U.S. is because corporations go outside of the U.S. to hire workers for less.”

That is certainly one way to look at things, but it is not a way that really works for anyone.

We each individually need to regard ourselves as the creators of our own levels of success in life.

If you have a skill and an employer lets you go, you can actually find yourself even more successful by going into business for yourself or with one or more partners.

To make it at the highest levels you need to:

  • Develop your abilities and knowledge to the utmost.
  • Learn how to turn what you can do into a successful business.

If you are out of a job, HIRE YOURSELF!

One of changes you may need to make for your personal development is the habitual tendency to blame others or your circumstances for your problems. To liberate yourself from this self-defeating habitual mindset for greater success begins with being self-aware enough to notice when you are falling into it.

When you notice yourself expressing that overly dependent attitude:
Shift into thinking about the skills and knowledge and relationships you need to build to be more successful.

Instead of hoping, waiting, or worrying, put yourself to work and pursue your personal development.

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Relationship Advice For Strife

By Bob Lancer
Wednesday, September 8th, 2010

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Relationship advice is often difficult to follow because it guides us to NOT follow our habitual ways. But it is our habitual ways that keep us stuck in our same old problems.

Stress affects love relationship

Don't let stress effect your love relationship

The relationship advice presented here calls upon you to overcome your habitual stress pattern.

A common mistake that couples make in their efforts to improve their lives, extricate themselves from difficulties and fulfill their responsibilities is to function in an uptight, impatient, stressful mode.

This mode, however, leads to strife in their relationship.  When you feel stressed you become difficult to get along with.  You end up inciting stress in your mate, and that makes your mate difficult to get along with.

Many of the conflicts that couples face are caused by stress. You might presume that your mate is the problem when you are living in such a stressful way that you can’t help but feel antagonized.

You make a harmonious, loving relationship unattainable for yourself as long as you refuse to live in a harmonious, loving way.  To diminish relationship strife, follow this relationship advice: diminish the stress in your life.

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Build a harmonious love relationship

Stress is not caused by circumstances, but by driving ourselves too hard to control our circumstances.

To change this pattern, notice how much stress you presently feel. When you notice yourself feeling stressed, nervous, anxious or frustrated, take a breath, ease up on yourself, let go of the thoughts about what can go wrong if you don’t continue pushing yourself.

Little by little, tiny degree by tiny degree, you can replace your habitual stress with more conscious, intentional calm.

As you apply this relationship advice, you will find that you can actually be more effective and successful by functioning in a calm, confident manner, and that you find it much easier to maintain a loving, harmonious relationship with your mate.

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