Learn From Relationship Challenges

By Bob Lancer
October 12th, 2011

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Successful relationship and love advice

By examining each relationship experience you can emerge with your own love-advice for a more love-filled life.

The most essential form of love advice for relationships is this:

  • Your relationship challenges call upon you to make changes in yourself.
  • When you feel dissatisfied SEE HOW YOU MAKE YOURSELF FEEL THAT WAY.

It’s common to blame our mate for how frustrated we feel in our relationship, but frustration is OUR REACTION TO WHAT HAPPENS.

Your mate is not responsible for how you react.

No one but you is responsible for how you react.

Advice For Relationship Success:

  • When you react in a way that makes you feel angry, insecure or disappointed, see that reaction as something that you need to outgrow, to change, for more fulfillment in love.

Advice Regarding Seeking a New Relationship:

  • Seeking a new relationship will not help you to experience more happiness as long as you remain in your unhappy reaction patterns.
  • Free yourself from your unhappy reaction before you seek freedom from an unhappy relationship.

What takes place in your personal relationships that causes you to feel so much unhappiness that you want to flee, to escape, to run away from the relationship?

In what ways do you react in your present relationship
that cause you the most pain?

In this blog, share your thoughts and questions about
how personal growth is really your relationship-success solution.

Advice For Relationship Success:

  • A common cause of relationship dissatisfaction is HOLDING ONTO OUR FEELINGS OF DISSATISFACTION.
  • When you feel dissatisfied, let go of those feelings and let yourself live peacefully in the now.

Any discord or difficulty you face in a relationship presents you with a lesson that reveals how you can change or grow for more relationship satisfaction.

By examining each relationship experience you can emerge with your own love-advice for a more love-filled life.

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