Discover Your Perfect Love Match

By Bob Lancer
March 2nd, 2011

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The real purpose of life is to learn how to live with complete fulfillment every second

How would you describe your perfect love match?

Would you know your perfect love match if you saw him or her?

In all likelihood you have come across individuals that you felt convinced were your heart’s ideal, only to be rejected by that person. How perfect was that?

The truth of the matter is that no matter how perfect a partner, or prospective partner might seem, soon you begin finding fault with that person – or that person seems to find so much fault with you that you find yourself left by the very one you thought was so right.

After repeated disappointments in love many lose hope
that there really is such a “thing” as a perfect love match.

Your perfect love match does indeed exist. But there is a caveat: It depends upon how you define perfection.

Your perfect love match is an expression of the perfection of life itself.  Every relationship presents you with exactly the lessons you need to fulfill your greater potential.

As you fulfill your greater potential you experience more fulfillment in every area of life, including the area of your love-life.

To grow into a wiser, more capable and happier person is to learn to embrace life’s hard times as much as you embrace life’s easier times.

The real purpose of life is to learn how to live
with complete fulfillment every second.

Whether we are:

  • getting along with our partner or arguing
  • feeling satisfied or dissatisfied with our partner in the present
  • feeling accepted or rejected

the purpose of the experience is to learn how to find total fulfillment.

If you are not fully enjoying your present experience, you are not living through it correctly.  This does not mean that you should judge yourself as wrong or as inadequate. It means go through the experience as a student in search of your path to total fulfillment in the now.

To experience more and more perfection in life and in love,
to find your perfect love match, look
for the perfection of the now.


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