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| We would all love more love in our relationships. But our loving feelings for one another seem to come and go. One moment we feel loving, the next we feel hurt, resentful, disconnected. This occurs in marriage, in our relationships with our children, in our friendships and professional relationships. It even occurs in our relationship with <em>ourselves</em>! No matter how hard we try, we just don’t seem to have the power to bring more love into our relationships. How is it that we can want something so much, and yet seem so powerless to achieve it? There is a law of creation that states: Within every desire is the power to satisfy it. And yet, there are so many “things” in life that we want without satisfaction. Does this negate that law? No. But it does indicate that we do not know how to work with the law. |
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| To access the power to satisfy your desire you have to go into your desire. All that prevents you from satisfying your desire for more love in your relationships is becoming distracted from your desire for love. When you feel hurt or angry, your attention shifts from your desire for love to another desire. It may be for revenge, for escape, for the power to turn back time in order to better defend yourself.
Within the power of desire is a feeling and a vision of the desire’s satiation. Living in the feeling and vision of the love you want instantly liberates your love, unless you resist love. As long as you resist love, you live without love. Here, then, is a key for bringing more love into your relationships: discipline the focus of your attention to keep it focused on your desire for love. The price you must pay for love is to religiously remember to remain aware of your desire for love. You can have all the love in relationships that you want. |
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